Great book, for me! I can tell by your post that you've read it. I hope it helps you as much as it is helping me. I'm really learning from it.
I'm not done with it yet, about 90% of the way through. My approach was to read it through first and then go through the excercise/worksheet.
Before my wife left, when she brought up taking the space and time to find a therapist/counselor as well as do some reading, I did show her the book and told her that it was helping me understand some of the things/issues. I suggested that she may find it helpful as the first half was talking about how the wife felt. She said that when I was finished with it that she may like to borrow it. I was thinking about just getting her a copy as this seemed like a book that I was going to work with for a while...
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13