Trying to think about the old not believing half of what you hear thing today. My wife is so sure that she wants this. In the first few weeks I saw chinks in her armor. She seems so secure in it now. And from what I have heard from others, she is absolutely convinced she has been with the wrong guy for the duration of our relationship.

I wish there was some evidence I could rely on to justify my faith in this. I mean I know it works for some people, but I would really love to know success rates or something.

But then the other side of me says, "well what it change anyway." The thing I like about both detaching and GAL is that they work to help you move forward even if they don't sawe the M. This has devolved into babble. Sorry.