Diane - yeah, what Baggy said!

Plus there is one other type of O which I didn't mention on this post, and that is a mental orgasm. Some people can literally "think" themselves to orgasm without any physical stimulation. Also, this is what happens when we have an O in our sleep...it is considered a mental orgasm too, because your mind causes your body to do it without stimulation.

And Cinco...

Yes, that feeling that you need to pee is very confusing! Because you don't actually need to pee. I remember before I had my first spontaneous gusher, I kept having that need to pee feeling while he was fingering me. I would stop him periodically and say "wow, I know I already peed before we started but I'm going to go again just to make sure"...then I would go in the bathroom, sit down, but nothing would happen. It would be very confusing. Then we'd go back to making out and fingering, and I'd get that sensation again. It is just slightly different than needing to pee, but it is very difficult to discern the difference before you really get used to it. And the first time I had a spontaneous gusher, I did have that feeling a tiny bit, but it had changed into something much more intense to the extent that I finally realized it was something different than the feeling of needing to pee....when I just relaxed and "went with it" is when I gushed.

Ever since then, I can easily tell the difference between needing to gush and needing to pee. They seem like totally different feelings now - where once they felt the same.

Good point also about the male G-spot! Lets not forget our men have a happy button, too! :0)

DQ