You're right...usually the WAS doesn't have the willingness to save them. But it doesn't make sense to argue that they could have been saved, but weren't, therefore the system works. The proof is in the pudding. Do you suppose that 80% COULD HAVE been saved, but only 1% of the people were willing to wait in limbo for 15 years to find out? Or do you suppose that for every one of us here failing to restore their marriage, there are 10 that aren't on this board that are saving theirs thanks to DB?


You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer