thanks for the link, Bob. H hasn't said that in awhile (that M not his focus). Just this afternoon we were both looking forward to spending some time together, I get home late mornings on Tues. and Thurs., and work all day M-W-F. He works 4-midnite so we don't really see each other on M-W-F, although I do wait up for him on Friday nights. But today, he got called out on a fire call (he's volunteer FF) and by the time he got back from that he was already an hour late for work so he had to run out of here. But not until he told me that it was his loss too after I said that today was my loss.

I think the M IS more of focus for him now, he's more and more attentive all the time. As for security, I don't ever want to take anything for granted again. I thought I had it made before, and therefore took him for granted. thanks for stopping by. Lisa


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