Me too, and I also have done things that have pushed us even further apart. But from Monday of this week I have/will show everyone I am moving on and am very happy with my situation even though I am not. Are you still living in the marital home? If so, most people suggest you have the best chance of making DR strategies work as your wife can see your changes. What are you working on at the moment?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years