I'm glad to hear you're having a good time with your folks visiting. It does sound as though it's giving your H some serious confusion and guilt issues though. I wouldn't concern yourself too much about how he's acting right now. He could just be uncomfortable with your parents being around. Wait till they leave to see how he acts again then. No sense in getting stressed about it. Just enjoy the time you and your kids have with your parents and put your H to the back of your mind.
Like stillloveshim, I too feel very left out when it comes to big events with my W. It's her birthday in June. Not a big one but I'm going to feel left out if I don't get the chance to give her a traditional birthday kiss and let her relax for the day while I wait on her hand and foot. Most of all though, I'm concerned about what we're going to do about the big events in Wee Man's life. What to do for birthdays, Christmas, etc. Thank god we don't celebrate Thanksgiving here or that would be another thing to try and work out for the best. Right now though I'm trying not to think about it.
Try to keep smiling PM.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
