BBJ..my two cents...LOL and not a a 2x4 and don't take it that way.."faking it till you make it" and "acting as if" is all fine and dandy...problem is...you must be an excellent actress/actor to pull that off..and most of us..myself included are suck ass actors..so we get stuck in a place of limbo..pretty much..until we finally make a decision...either for "better or worse"
I read along...just so you know..yell when you want..i'm always around..
