Still talking to myself.... H purchased 2 trailer loads of fencing panels. He got home with the 2nd load while I was doing chores and came to share with me where he wanted to use specific panels. He had a plan. DID Y0U HEAR THAT? H had a plan for 'our' place. Nice! the only problem is how to rejuggle and cover the check. I think I have to just keep trying to stay out of H's way while he journeys back.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.