You are all that and you cook too. Your w is a fool. Puppy, I'm sad for you and your kids; your w too. She is so foolish to walk away from a good man like you.
And thank you so much for your support when I was going through my sh!t. I like that you posted to me and understood that it's ok to disagree with some of the DB stuff that isn't effective or good for us in the long run.