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Now I understand what the issue is and am working on me so that we can work on it.


What is the issue?

You are working on you for yourself.

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She said that she felt that I was not as developed as her emotionally. She said I was like a 12 year old emotionally


She feels like she is "mothering" you. Not attractive to a female. She doesn't need another child she needs her man, partner, friend, lover and husband. Note I didn't say you were a emotional 12 yr old but your W "feels" that way. Change her feelings about that.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.