Until you get it into your head that what she says and what she does is absolutely nothing to do with you, and her MySpace account is none of your freaking business you will never ever get off of this damned rollercoaster ride.
Secondly let me give you a different perspective....Would you prefer your EX-Husband's girlfriend be kind and loving to your Son and treat him like her own or act like a total bitch to him and make him feel unwelcome?
This is about your feelings and the rejection you feel.
You feel as though you have been replaced.
He is your Son, he knows that.
He is also 18, and can make his own choices and his own friends.
Stop paying everyone here lip service.....you are still doing more of the same, still chasing your tail and spinning in circles.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
