All is fair in love and war. I can't really blame you for your revenge plot, even though it isn't "good energy".
I'm sure that A's are so rampant in the military, that they have to turn a blind eye else they'd lose a lot of good people.
Maybe you can focus on scheduling some things to help keep you busy and occupied this week? Talk to an attorney, but also do some fun stuff with your daughter?? Movies are great escapes, too. Heck, go see every one that's out just so you'll be in a dark place with your cell phone off!