Ali, I am not worried about her at the moment. Somehow I managed to go back to "dont really care mode" about that. I am not saying he is seeing her but my gut feeling tells me they are in contact "as friends" which I cant control and until it becomes an issue I am not going to focus on it any longer.
Depression. I dont know much about depression. I believe some people are enjoying life more than others. If you ask H he will tell you his life in general is good. I have talked to him about that and his answer is "I dont want much to be happy, sleep, work and a few fun times are enough", so I dont think he is depressed. Ali when he cried, he cried at the IC because he realised he has been repeating his parents patterns and he didnt even know. He realised their relationship wasnt as good as he thought.
I am not building any walls but I am not tearing them down either. I am not that naive anymore. K
