Did your W's mom know about the A's before last night?
She did know because I told her. I knew she wouldn't let on to my wife that she knew. How did I know this? She had cut ties with her mom. Her mom is desperate to know what's going on in her daughter's life. She told me no matter the outcome that she would never reveal that we have talked about anything. MIL called me last night and told me everything that the wife had said.
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Who is her organization?
Remember, my wife is in the military. Adultry is against the UCMJ. She could lose rank or her job for that matter. Not only that, the person with whom she is having an affair is in the same organization, in the military and is married. He has way more to lose. From what I've heard, there is a lot of this going on in that organization. There is something seriously wrong with that as the leadership there has basically turned a blind, approving eye to the whole thing. I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT KEY PEOPLE IN LEADERSHIP THERE KNOW THIS IS GOING ON!!!!
Like I said, if it comes down to a divorce, my wife will have to sign away everything or I will seriously consider exposing her and open up her organization for investigation. It would just take one phone call. Was this a wise decision to talk to my MIL? Probably not but so far it has worked out ok.
Last edited by AFWAW; 04/21/0912:45 PM.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!