Sounds like my situation. Wife announced she wanted a divorce just before christmas, said she felt neglected, unloved and I admit I have not treated her very well over the years. No conselling just straight to divorce, very quick and I think it is because there is somebody else which is killing me. My family are not very loving either, so I have not had any contact with them for months. My wife is angry with me too, but I have been told it is because she is in turmoil with her decision and the guilt of breaking up a family. She will try to blame you for everything to justify the WAW fog she is in.

More seasoned posters will repond to your post and will give you all the advice you need. We are all in the same boat here, it hurts like hell but you are in the right place to try and make sense of it all.

Take care.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years