When I think about it I know we were never really soul mates. I think we have sort of co-existed for a long time, and I lost my mind when I started to take my wife for granted. It has only been these last four months that I have analysed all the situations, outings, things we did together etc, and to be honest we have not done a great deal together. I know now what a fool I have been in ignoring my wife, but unfortunately I think things have gone beyond repair.
I will continue to GAL, PMA and DR as I must keep trying to get my wife back. We all know it will take time, I've heard for every year you have been married it takes approximately one month to repair a relationship. This in my case would be 15 months, but I am prepared to stick this out even when my wife is/will be in a PA with someone which will be devastating to me. I just hope I know when I need to drop the rope because I do not want to spend my life hoping my wife will come back to me.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
