A new twist happened last night. My wife called me and said she had talked to her mom and told her everything. She said and why exactly are you doing what your doing? And John is willing to take you back anyway and for you to be able to see your daughter everyday and you're not going back because? She said John must really love you. My wife made the arguement that I was just doing this for my daughter and her mom basically shut her down. I got a lot of this from her mom as I called after I hung up with the wife--MIL knows that I'm at the end of my rope and she is afraid that my wife has lost it. She told my wife that she needed to get some help and talked to her for a really long time. I just listened. She said I really needed to hear that from her--I said that's what moms are for. She then told me that OM had stopped by with food for her and she couldn't/wouldn't eat it and he got mad and left and that the physical part is over. She told me that when I had called he had been there and that she had gone to the other room to talk to me and that had angered OM and he left.
Whatever. I'm still waiting to see what happens. I hold all the cards now. If she decides to go through with a divorce I will get custody of my daughter or I will expose her and her organization as there seems to be a lot of this going on there from what I've been hearing.
I know I've got a lot of anger and resentment to work through at this point having learned all that I have and how the wife made this about me when I got home and has treated me. All I know is this is not going to be easy either way. I'm still hoping she comes to her senses as it's getting to a point where a decision needs to be made.
Last edited by AFWAW; 04/21/0910:52 AM.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!