After much hunting I finally found your thread. The search facility on here is pathetic.
I read through your last thread and found it really inspirational. You're doing great IMO. You really seem to have found yourself through this difficult situation.
I can't really comment much on what you're going through as I'm not sure if I fully understand where your H is coming from at all. He seems like a very confused man if I'm completely honest. You seem to be cautious enough not to get too carried away with the moments of flirting and fun that you and your H have been having lately. It all seems fairly positive to me, divorce aside. You mentioned that you got on much better as GF/BF than you did as W/H. In a way I suppose you may be getting closer to that again.
Anyway, I'd better get back to work. I'll keep checking in on your thread now that I've found it.
Keep smiling.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.