BBJ, I've been following your thread for a long time without posting (and a couple of others too) because our sitches were very familiar. I hesitate to post on here because mine went south, but... I think you're doing the right thing. Not just the right thing for you, but the right thing in the face of what you're facing.
Learn to breathe, to live, to grow. If Dan's with you or not, these are things you need to do. You'll feel better regardless of what's going on at the time.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
