JOURNALING:

Called D8 & S3 to say goodnight. Letting it go at that. Sent XW a text asking her to tell them I called and that I love them and asking her to kiss them goodnight from me.

I won't make any additional calls. Don't want XW to be able to misconstrue my 3+ year pattern of 'touching' my children by phone as harassing(<-- her lovely term, conjured up with the arrival of my impending temporary move to my brother's house and her new DH#5).

As I said yesterday,
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And now IT begins in earnest....


This is new water for me, so I'll tread lightly and plot my course purposefully and focus on myself, D8&S3. Regardless of the outcome of my sitch, the three of us will all come out much better than when we started this journey.


Letting Go Tom; JUST DO IT!
previously hopeful_husband

my A: Fall 05
W found out: Feb 06; separated immediately
W pursued D, final 7/11/07

me: 43
XW: 34
D8
S3
joint legal/physical custody