Thank you for your insights and especially what you said about my posts. That affirmation is exactly what I needed tonight.
I have just gotten back from meeting with my Ml'er. We got together to discuss parenting my teen age daughter.
It was very insightful. It was a somewhat productive meeting but I did leave it feeling like I was the crazy one. They have a wonderful ability to make you feel like you caused all this mess. That skill is quite amazing.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11