Thanks for catching up on my thread and posting! I've decided to serve him before the trip and act like I really didn't know about it, so your suggestion is excellent and I'll include that. The only thing is, I don't think I'll have time to tell him since he's not responding to me. Besides I think my Atty will think my H might try to dodge the service if he was given a heads up on it.
I've been reading your thread and think you're amazing at detaching. That's where I've been having problems. I depended on him for so much and I'm scared of what will happen in the future.
Trampleheart
M51, H49, D21 M 23yrs, T 28yrs 3/07 - OW Bomb 6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate 10/07 - OW2 Bomb 5/08 - secretly move to OW2's end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2 2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet
