BND, what she said would not bother you? I am NOT worried what she does with him, but calling my son HER BOY is bothersome to me. Now, I dont know if she is just that unconsiderate or if she did it on purpose, either way it bothered me and I cant help it. So being bothered by this is spinning to you? Geez am I ever gonna get over what she says or does,,,,I am over the "you got my xh part", really I am. But my son is a different story. You think I shouldnt be bothered by this do you? I had one friend tell me to be the bigger person and ignore her, that she might not even know it bothers me. HMMM. Had another friend tell me that she wouldnt be able to hold her temper and she would let her have it, and to put something on myspace in return. (I dont think this is a good idea, the old me would have, the new me,,,NO!)