A Real friend would shut the [censored] up and NOT tell you what your x-husband's fiance is saying if your real friend knew what it would do to you. Not ALL information is needed to know.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/20/0911:49 PM.
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I gotta agree with Jeff. When I was your son's age, I lost my virginity to a 26 year old gal. I Dont think I would have accepted her calling me as her "boy".
My GF was a little taken back when my D6 said that she now has 2 daddy's. I dont let it get to me. I have time on my side, whereas, OM (68) has time ticking down. Tick Tock Tick Tock.
Jack its on her MYspace, Yes I looked. I knew she would write something about it thats why I looked. I need to get rid of my computer probably. Because the only weakness I now seem to have is looking at her myspace page. I can go so long without looking and then I get curious. I wish I could STOP THIS NONSENSE. I know my son doesnt look at her as a mother. My son however doesnt talk to me about his feelings so I dont know what he thinks. When he first met her he said she was YOUNG and hung all over dad. He then told me NO ONE would ever replace me. Since then he has gotten use to the idea. He aims to please his father, so he will do whatever it takes to do this. I dont really think my son would say anything about her calling him HER BOY, I dont think he would give it a second thought, he is naive.
OW is trying to be coy...OW is trying to get under 18yo skin so that maybe 18yo and his old man will get jealous of each other.
Sick...but most OW are this way. They want attention, and they don't care how they get it.
She's trying to be 'cute'....she's not being cute, she's being perverted.
Either she wants the old man...or she wants the attentions of someone closer to her own age...the 18 yr. old.
This is where you, Sun, have to step waaaaaay out of the picture...and do nothing, say nothing, plan nothing...nothing.
OW is lighting her own keg of TNT....you won't have to help her have it blow up in her face...she'll do fine on her own.
There is no way on this earth that your son will ever look at her and like to think of himself as 'her boy'. I'm sure he's as embarrassed by her remark as you are angry about it.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
You know whats sad. Ow lost her little boy back in oct to a horrible accident and tomorrow is his birthday. Instead of saying something about her litte one she is calling MY SON her boy. I dont get this woman/girl. I pray for her.
Ill address the comment about your son wanting his Dad ......again dont worry about that and just focus on your realtionship with your son...healthy.....your son will notice your H character all on his on .....it is very hard for them to deal with their fathers actions and the more you say somehting the more they will protect.....they want their Dad to be their Dad...just like you want him to be your H....ALL i CAN SAY IS DONT DO ANYTHING TO HARM THEIR RELATIONSHIP DONT BAD MOUTH HIS DAD....IF YOU CAN DO THIS HE WILL COME TO TERMS WITH HIS DADS ACTIONS IN HIS OWN TIME....PATIENCE IS KEY...
ON THE SNOOPING TRY AND JUST THINK IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE WHAT HE IS DOING......WHO HE IS DOING...HE IS NOT WITH YOU.....AND YOU NEED YOU TO KEEP GOING AND MAKE YOUR WAY....HE JUMPED SHIP FOR NOW.....AND YOU CANT SAVE HIM AND BY WATCHING HIS ROLL IN THE PIG PEN YOU WILL JUST TORTURE YOURSELF......MAYBE SHE KNOW U LOOK AT HER MYSPACE.....
BND, what she said would not bother you? I am NOT worried what she does with him, but calling my son HER BOY is bothersome to me. Now, I dont know if she is just that unconsiderate or if she did it on purpose, either way it bothered me and I cant help it. So being bothered by this is spinning to you? Geez am I ever gonna get over what she says or does,,,,I am over the "you got my xh part", really I am. But my son is a different story. You think I shouldnt be bothered by this do you? I had one friend tell me to be the bigger person and ignore her, that she might not even know it bothers me. HMMM. Had another friend tell me that she wouldnt be able to hold her temper and she would let her have it, and to put something on myspace in return. (I dont think this is a good idea, the old me would have, the new me,,,NO!)
