HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

Stuck808,

Thanks you so much for your advice! I'm going to go ahead with it. I left a message with my Atty and I'll probably hear from him tomorrow morning.

I've tried to contact H but he hasn't responded. I have a feeling he's not going to either. He probably thinks that he's had too much contact with me recently, and he doesn't want me to get used to it... That only makes me more sure that I need to do this.

Your suggestion of what to say is perfect except for one thing - my H never said he was unsure - he's been adamant about not coming back ever.

I had hoped that he was saying that because he was in MLC and would change his mind eventually... But he's never said anything to make me think that he would come back. He's never wanted MC. He's never talked about working it out. And now, 2 years later, he thinks I'm crazy for wanting to stay together.