HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[Silver Fox]

Hey TH,

Thanks for posting on my thread. I'm catching up with yours.

My mind tells me that I should go forward with the legal process and protect myself - that he probably has ulterior motives in his current niceness... That I shouldn't trust him and I should protect myself, just in case. After all, he's already done things like used our frequent flyer miles for himself and OW...what would stop him from taking more? And who knows, maybe he's already done worse things financially that I don't even know about. A few weeks ago he mentioned something about getting his bank accounts in order - "in order" what way? and for what?

Your mind is smarter than your heart right now. I would serve him before the trip. You can just say "Well, you said you were getting your bank accounts in order, now I'm getting my financial furture in order. You understand don't you sweetheart?"