Well did another more thorough inventory - he took the hedge trimmer (WTF?????) He lives in Queens - there are no hedges there. He also took the chainsaw and a load of his tools (wrenches, drills, electric saws etc). He also took something of mine - it was a little gizmo that sucked oil out of small engines.
He took some pictures off the wall including a large picture that I gave him for Christmas a couple of years ago. He took a photo of the plane he used to have. Funny enough he didn't take any photos of the children.........
I already had a coaching session schedules with Jody this p.m. so she suggested some methods of damage control. I am going to go back to total NC (should never have taken the bait to begin with but I was so mad that he put my friend in this horrible position).
My assets (such as they are) are already protected.
I don't know where the mother ship is taking him but I don't think it's good........ My friend said he looked absolutely terrible, tired, haggard and generally wasted. I am just so sad that he is doing this to himself and sad that his family are encouraging him in his delusions that this is all my fault.
Jerri Me 50 WAH 47 M 23 years D 22 S 21 S 30 (previous marriage) B 02/09 marriage is over S 02/09 NC