This all has made me wonder, if I will get some of his debt. His financial paperwork shows him in the negative! His debts, by the way, was one reason he gave to D.

When I told my sister of the news, she put her hands up in the air - to cheer. Even though, this has brought my H & I closer together, can't say I'm really happy about it. Still kinda relieved, but not happy. This has also got me thinking, if some of the reasons we are getting D, is because that is what friends, family & society expects is the right thing to do in such a short M & a short time living together M.

I will probably mention this all to my H. If nothing else to probe & try to get some of his thoughts on this. Again, what could it hurt, since I'm no longer struggling against him.

If the judge would ask him why we want to D - I wonder what he would say? Given our M our R has taken a strange twist as of late.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)