They are the WORLD to me!! As I write this, S12 is IMing me from home, telling me how excited he is to watch the Yankees on TV with me tonite. Sometimes, Life is good.
Puppy
Absolutely!! Enjoy!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Enjoy your son tonight. You have such a beautiful family, Puppy. My heart aches for you.
It's so sad. She got through one of the hardest things she could have gone through- facing her mistakes head on with all of her family knowing, and then she didn't follow through on the most important part- how to repair the marriage. It doesn't just "happen". And then Retrouvaille, opening up the wounds....and then not using those communication skills and looking at those wounds and working to fix them. Ugh.
It takes two.
My words don't help you much, but I guess I'm understanding your frustration, and sometimes just having someone do that can help. I hope so.
So hard to understand how a WAS can throw a way a family life. I guess everything in life is disposeable now. Your spouse just doesn't make you tingle all over anymore... Dispose of them and find a new shiny model. What they don't realize, that new model is refurbished and the problems will show up soon!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
My words don't help you much, but I guess I'm understanding your frustration, and sometimes just having someone do that can help. I hope so.
It does, WDID, and I do appreciate your thoughts to me. Watching my wife struggle with this makes me all the more amazed at the strength that you have. NOBODY wants to face their own chit, and it takes a special kind of maturity to do that.
I do think that someday my wife will realize what she ran away from. I really do.
Had a GREAT time at the driving range and putting green tonite with the boys. Came home and the Yankees game was postponed due to rain (bummer!), but S12 is enjoying the NBA playoffs and rooting against the dreaded Celtics. I made some bbq pork chops on the grill, rubbed with kosher salt and cracked black pepper and basted in apple juice. Yumm!!!
Had a GREAT time at the driving range and putting green tonite with the boys. Came home and the Yankees game was postponed due to rain (bummer!), but S12 is enjoying the NBA playoffs and rooting against the dreaded Celtics. I made some bbq pork chops on the grill, rubbed with kosher salt and cracked black pepper and basted in apple juice. Yumm!!!
About that time of year for me to fire up my grill for some steaks...
Glad for you Pup.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
Had a GREAT time at the driving range and putting green tonite with the boys. Came home and the Yankees game was postponed due to rain (bummer!), but S12 is enjoying the NBA playoffs and rooting against the dreaded Celtics. I made some bbq pork chops on the grill, rubbed with kosher salt and cracked black pepper and basted in apple juice. Yumm!!!
Do you deliver?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Sorry to hear about your change in circumstances. You seem to be in good spirits now. Your support here is wonderful.
I see you're a Springsteen fan. I lived in NYC from 1975-79. I had a boyfriend who was a fanatic and we saw "the boss" in concert at least 3 different times - at his peak - it was amazing.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
