dont worry......dont make a big deal....if u do it turns the focus on you...the OW is doing just fine.....it seems she is showing her true colors....dont u think your h and son will notice she is calling him her boy.....and that well may be just the tip of the ice berg.....YES I UNDERSTAND YORU FRUSTRATION...but let it go....SHE WILL DO FINE WITH MAKING A MESS OUT OF THIS...if u get involved they will turn the focus on you....do u see the point....either which way u will gain NOTHING by saying ANYTHING...trust me in side SHE IS NOT YOU TO YOUR SON...EVEN ON THE DAY HE IS THE MADDEST AT YOU...SHE WILL NEVER REPLACE YOU....THE SHINE WILL WEAR OFF....SIT BACK AND GIVE IT TIME...TIME IS ON YOUR SIDE...IF YOU FOCUS ON YOU AND YOUR GROWTH AND ACTIONS