Yes Julia .... you were verrry coollll!!!! It sounds like your meeting went very well. Even though, it was tough, you feel good inside - right?? Just a little?? Sometimes, these things don't seem like babysteps, but they are. And he offered to help you move. Great job!!! Well, done! \:\)

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)