Hi Mules - Tough situation with that dirtbag shoplifting wife corrupting neighbor.
Could it be that your STBXW has done a 360 like mine. As I look back at my X's description of her teen year, she was a spoiled partying rebelious brat with her parents. She seemed to calm down when she married me only to have the party tramp return when the kids got into grade school.
Maybe there is another term for it - Mid Life Crisis - Your STBXW is trying to be a teenager again with no responsibility.
BTW... What is it with your hate towards lawn chairs? It seemed that John Elway threw a good amount of screen passes way too hard and I bet he could throw a football through a lawn chair also.
