Do you think maybe I should ask him to talk about it with me first before serving him?

Maybe he doesn't really feel the same now as he did when he made the reservations for their trip...He made the reservations at the end of February, the day after my petition for Legal Sep was filed with the Courts.

I wish it would snap him out of it... But I think he would just go along with it. He may even choose to get a divorce over legal separation and try to make it really ugly, hoping to give me the least possible...


M51, H49, D21
M 23yrs, T 28yrs
3/07 - OW Bomb
6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate
10/07 - OW2 Bomb
5/08 - secretly move to OW2's
end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2
2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet