Jerri, I'm very sorry that your weekend had a downward turn. Yes, you took the bait quite a bit. Now, step back, take a huge breath and move forward.
Many of them do come sneaking around when we are gone to take things. The first thing you need to do is a thorough search of your home to see what else he may have taken. They take very obvious things that you may not think much about until you actually need them again. What about photos or a favorite coffee cup? Look around to see if he took things from his past that meant something only to him.
Okay, I'm going to bite...a pressure washer? Does he need it where he's staying? If not, he took that out of anger and spite. Your journey is just taking off...from this day forward, you will not be dealing w/your normal h. Threats, direct and/or indirect made by you have now made you enemy number one and he will do whatever it takes to ensure that he continues to have control over you.
Protect your assets...do what you must to move money over into account w/just your name, the same applies to credit cards. What about the utilities? Taxes? Jerri, you need to take everything I've said seriously...this guy is now angry at the world and he will lash out at you. Do not goad, threaten or take the bait. When he comes at you, change the subject, leave the room, hang up, just do not sit there and take the bs.
You now must look out for yourself. You are number one and this man has been scooped up by the Mother Ship to become another "pod person" for a long time.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
