MLC Maybe?

[Jerri]

Well had a rough weekend. I left for DC to visit my son on Saturday. Had been gone only an hour when H showed up. Friend was dogsitting and had to let him in He took all his clothes, and a bunch of other stuff. He brought BIL in with him - couldn't even come alone even knowing I wouldn't be home....
I was furious and stupidly texted him - told him he was gutless that he couldn't even face me. Then he got really nasty, texting back that everything was my problem
"I don't know what is going through your head but as far as I can remember I have paid in full for everything in that house so I hope you don't think for a minute that you have some sort of entitlement.... the ball is in you court as to how this is going to end... it can be good or bad it's up to you....It's in your best interest.... you are the one with the problem not me"

And I'm afraid I rose to the bait and texted back that he was the one with the serious problem and that he need to research ACOA followed up the MLC. Didn't go over well as he texted back that I needed to "get over myself". Again I took the bait and came back with he was the one who seriously needed to get over "himself" and that I was so over him and done.

The weekend pretty much was horrible - I'd gone their last summer with my H and all I could think of was how happy we'd been. We'd also gone to DC 22years ago so it brought back memories of that too. Ended up spending Saturday night locked in the bathroom crying. My son was upset as he still can't understand what's going on.

I guess I need to consult an attorney this week.

Oh and when I got home I checked to see what he'd taken - the 12 garbage bags of clothes (hey I guess at least I packed them up for him!), his skis, his camera, a bunch of books, tons of tools from the garage and a pressure washer!!!!