Stuck808, I'm so scared...my stomach is turning inside out...

Should I wait till he returns from their vacation to Rome to serve him? That would be around the 4/7th... Or should I call my attorney now and see if he can be served before he leaves Thursday morning?

M51, H49, D21
M 23yrs, T 28yrs
3/07 - OW Bomb
6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate
10/07 - OW2 Bomb
5/08 - secretly move to OW2's
end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2
2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet