Searching, do you have a thread? The one I found was locked...
I don't post very often to my sitch, but lately when I do, I post here on this forum since W and I are essentially separated even though we are still living under the same roof. I'm in a somewhat self imposed limbo hell right now, but it's getting old and I need to sooner or later move forward. Your resolve and progress in doing that is motivating me. I'm sure you would rather progress towards true reconcilliation, however at some point any progress is better than just standing still.