Forgive AND forget?

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This weekend a hotel room was provided for us during the trade show. It had a queen bed and a couch. With our history of 'bed fights' and unsleeping together in a hotel room I took the couch since it considered H's room. Problem was the couch was shorter than me and I couldn't get comfortable and my legs were aching from standing on concrete all day. I got up to close the curtains so the city lights didn't shine in my eyes. H said if I wasn't comfortable why don't I just sleep in the bed? I got up and moved to the bed with him, no touching, and he turned his back on me.
Also, my sister was visiting from out of town and he invited her to stay in our room one night and I didn't even know he did until sis told me. The night she stayed H helped her turn the couch into a bed and get the blankets/pillows out. H and I slept in the bed again.
Another babystep? or just keeping me confused? Why invite me to the bed and turn his back? why not tell me the sofa turns to a bed or let me know there were extra blankets so I could stay on the couch?

The weekend had many ups and a few downs. ow sighting just as I was leaving to go to dinner with a group of ladies I seldom see. ow had walked up to H and talking to him. I wanted so much to approach but I just left. In a few minutes I did need to go back and ask H for a hotel key, ow had moved away but was still near by. The other times I saw her all weekend she was alone. It was nice to observe that I am not the only one that has put a few pounds back on. HA! and SHE is turning gray too and I am not! double HAHA!

Also got a bad phone call from the people doing our chores. They found our last old cow from the original starter herd died. Just a cow, but very sentimental and I am sad. I don't expect anyone to understand that, I just wish not everything has to keep changing.