Saadly, people in general probably don't stop and think how their actions are going to effect someone else. I know we are super sensitive to it right now but I think it is a good if not difficult lesson to learn.

I am sorry that your H hasn't been able to maintain his NC beyond the baby. I think it would be difficult especially when they are still talking. No excuses hon, just an observation. It is like letting a junkie have just a pinch of a drug and then expect him to not try to get more.

Perhaps a 3rd party should have been brought in to deal with the passing off of the baby etc, because with both of them being addicts it is just to huge a temptation.

I don't know if you want to pass this last option by him as your last line of defense or simply say you are done, finito. Either way, dear Corey I am in your corner. Let me know if I need to cut your eye so you can see!

kat


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