I have been lurking on these boards for a while. amazing similarities in the stories. My wife told me dec 30 she no longer wanted to be married. completely out of the blue. moved out Feb 14 and has filed for divorce and pushing hard to have it finalized.I am 42 shes 38 we did everything as a family. my boys race go karts and we have a boat and were always together. She says she did not feel loved by me and i was never happy. I have since got on a.d. and really doing well by my boys, but she has no interest in trying. I have read D.R. but admit i have not done very well. every time we talk we end up angry, now its just text. I feel like everything I have worked towards is gone. any advice is appreciated

me 42
waw 38
s 11
s 8
t16 m13
d filed feb 4