WDID. You're a lot more confident than I am about what's going on with her.

That's probably my biggest problem with the whole thing. I am kind of "if you want to do this, just say so" kind of person. If she does "love me", why not say so? Why not say, "I made a horrible mistake, I love you and I want to see if we can make this work".

But I don't get that. I haven't heard an "I love you" for probably 18 months, and I wonder how many I heard in the 8 months before that were real. She doesn't wear her rings. She hasn't said "I'm sorry".

All those things don't add up to her being where you think she is WDID, but I guess I'll take your word for it.

Last edited by Hope4us; 04/20/09 07:18 PM.
Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.