Very sorry you had to come across some crap like that, Michelle (the photos). I know that hurt. (((Hugs)))

But yeah, those two deserve each other...two really messed up people.

As others have said, the only one here who has lost and IS lost is STBXH.

(((((Michelle)))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell