To make a long story short bfh called me at 1:30 this morning yelling at me that I was making her life miserable WTH????? Mind you I was sound asleep and it took me quite a while to even figure out the noise I was hearing was coming from the phone, then it took me several more seconds to understand who the voice was on the other end of the phone screaming at me.
Seems her H got a hold of her phone and confronted her about txts between her and my H.
None of it matters... I refuse to be drawn back into the drama. I know there is no repairing my marriage. My H has probably been lying to me all along. Although he still refuses to admit to anything that he does not know I know already.
The kicker in all this is that he has been so sweet and "husband like" lately. Just making sure he gets through this school I guess. School is done on this coming Thursday btw. I am a fool, no I take that back... I have been acting like a fool, choosing to believe him, but no more.
Oh and wait it gets better... next weekend he will be gone for 5 days on his annual fishing trip AND I just found out in the last hour that the last weekend he will be here (before he reports to his new duty station) there is a big going away party planned for him (by none other than bfh) at a camp ground (a couple of hours away). Yes folks you read that right, he is planning to spend his last available weekend with bfh and his buddies from work rather than his kids.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
