I think the talk was necessary. All of us LBS's have needs and feelings too. To expect to live in limbo forever is very unfair and can be unhealthy. I think you are doing well. Your not bitter, you want to be happy and there ain't nothing wrong with that.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too