Going home is not an option as I have found we have communicated better since we seperated last week (apart from this moring when we had a face to face row over money), and it also stabalises the children.
You're right actually, finding out if she is having an affair won't really change anything, I suppose as Puppy said on my original thread it gives a REASON for what she is doing. If I was to find out I would want to inform everybody she knows including her family as I think she is fast tracking our divorce so that she can unveil a new beau after the divorce, so that she would not look bad in front of family and friends. The deceit and the fact I knew but could not prove it would be a difficult scenario to bear.
Maybe I am letting my imagination run away with me, as has been said many times before I cannot do anything about what she is doing so forget her and concentrate on the children, but we all know how hard that is.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
