PD, just checking in. You are in my prayers. Looks like you are getting good advice there. In your state, is it a fault state? I know you do not want it to get ugly but you need to have an "ace in the hole" in case.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09