The adventure continues--part 3

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Ok, it got worse again. Apparently the wife can't deal with the guilt. She told me today as we were walking around the track that she is now NOT coming home. I said why's that? She said she couldn't deal with the guilt for the rest of her life. I said what the freak am I supposed to tell our daughter who you told yesterday that you were coming home? She said I don't know. Well, that's freaking great. She said just let me go. I don't feel anything for you, I tried to yesterday and I just can't. She said, why did you have to go to Iraq? I said, no, no, I didn't tell you to go do this stuff. She said, I've been living with this guy, does that paint a clear enough picture for you? I said, you told me you ended it yesterday right? She said yes, but I still have feelings for him. She said, it's not that easy. I said the hard parts over--you already told me. She said I need some time. I said how much freaking time do you need? I'm not a freaking doormat. She said give me a week. I said a week for what? So you go call this guy and get back together. She said I don't know if I can stop. I said that's why I want you back home. It's like a drug. I told her that it wouldn't be easy but she needed to try. She said, I don't know if I can stop. I said you need to get help. She said I know but who do I talk to? I'll get in trouble in the military. She said, How could you want me back after what I've told you? I told her I loved her and if she was willing to try, our marriage was worth it. She said she didn't know. I asked her again, what am I supposed to tell our daughter? She said, I don't know, she doesn't even care if I come home? I said, you've got to be kidding--she's 13! I said you really need to get some help. She had the nerve if I was going to be ok, I just walked away, I just walked away.

At this point, I'm totally lost. I thought she was coming back home. Now we are at a whole different level. What to do, what to do.