I didn't exactly WANT to hear it, I thought I needed to hear it. I know the writing is on the wall but when they send mixed messages it is easy for the LBS to grasp at the straws...well he would NOT say it, but he couldn't say he was 'in' either so he is 'out' by default. And my actions toward him will reflect that going forward more so than they have been.
Not to punish him, but to help me live in my new reality.
