Yoyo, I know how hard this is for you BUT I understand fully. My H like yours thinks that because he provides financially that all is fine. It's NOT.

My H missed both the sweetheart dance and homecoming dance this year. No pics with her Dad, no meeting friends, dates etc. How sad is that. I sent him a picture of her via the cell phone with instructions that he could not show the OW per D15. This is how pathetic their life has become.

You need to set your boundaries. They have set the boundaries with us...lies and broken promises. We stand true to our believes and till they come out of the fog we take care of ourselves and our families and that is what God wants us to do.

take care.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09